i need some advice. i was doing my christmas cards today and i always send one to kyla and her family. so why should this year be any different... my predicament... i feel that i should put kyla's name on the card but some people think that's a bad idea. i don't know what to do. i think that i should because even though Kyla's not with us anymore she's still a part of the family. i don't know what to do... i don't want to be disrespectful. What do you guys think i should do?
posted by CrystalDammeier @ 7:56 AM
4 Comments:
Maybe you should send a card with everyone's name (in her family as of currently) on it and then at the bottom write "In memory of Kyla: May her spirit live on this (holiday) Christmas season." I dunno, just a suggestion.
Wow. That is a really tough question; Because if you don't include it that would very much be a visual of "just because she isn't with us anymore she isn't a part of your family." but I mean if you do include it that would jsut be a painful reminder of how she won't be here for this christmas or any othr future famiyl things then again I think that would already be there in the minds of all her family members. I'm a bit torn but I think in the end it would be better to include her name if only how Victoria suggested.
I really like victorias idea. That way, you will still be showing respect for kyla, but you will also not be like, pretending she's still alive. yep.
i like victoria's idea too.
Ces wants people to be able to talk about kyla and everything openly and know that it's okay to do that. I like victoria's idea..definitley include something like that. There's no right or wrong way..do what your gut's telling you to do.
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